This is so well expressed and I totally agree with you. I'm at a complete loss as to why some Americans have this view about sex and feel it absolutely fine to insist others have it too. I'm English and would have had no problem with my children seeing that original picture but then I don't automatically see wrong when I see explicit nude pictures, or naked guys together and neither thank god, do they.
Rei has done some superb pictures and it hurts to think that she has been attacked by an anonymous poster who hasn't the courage to sign his/her name. I really feel for her.