Ah ha ha! I'm a dominant woman in the BDSM scene, so I get the "pleasure" of meeting people IRL who have based their LIVES around these novels. They all like to tell me that I'd be happiest being the sub, and I just need to get intouch with my "TWOO SUBBY WAYS".

No thanks, I like being on *this* side of the whip, thank you very much.